insaneasperger wrote:I satart college tomorrow and I'm rather nervous.....
kat wrote:well I've fucked up again, been sorf of seeing this guy called Michael and he came round tonight, normal evening, until he started to say that I seemed a little distant and thought we we going a little too slowly for his liking (we've been on one date and to the pub once) and he got me to open up about my feelings which usually ends badly and he got me to admit that in the past week or so that I have come to terms with the fact that I am far from over Harland (despite the inital anger) and it all went downhill from there the last thing he said to me was that he "hopes he doesn't bump into me in town and the next time I go into a pit of despair not to drag anyone on with me" but the bit that hurts the most is I was entirley honest about the events of the past year on our first date and he seemed OK with it but at the first sign of me going through a rough patch he bolts and tells me he never wants to see me again whilst going on to me that I should respect the fact that he has feelings too? I hate to be so general but men can be such bastards at times
insaneasperger wrote:Hope things get better for you soon Kat,
I satart college tomorrow and I'm rather nervous.....
Moon-Crane wrote:insaneasperger wrote:Hope things get better for you soon Kat,
I satart college tomorrow and I'm rather nervous.....
Hope it's gone well
kat wrote:makes me want to be back in 6th form, scary thing is it was 7 years ago I started, those were the days etc etc
insaneasperger wrote:kat wrote:makes me want to be back in 6th form, scary thing is it was 7 years ago I started, those were the days etc etc
it was 5 years age that I started college for the first time, and I hope this time will be just as fun!
CatNamedRudy wrote:insaneasperger wrote:kat wrote:makes me want to be back in 6th form, scary thing is it was 7 years ago I started, those were the days etc etc
it was 5 years age that I started college for the first time, and I hope this time will be just as fun!
You started college at age 5? You are a smart cookie IA!
Seriously, I hope things go well for you. Sounds like things were good your first day from what you put on FB!
kat wrote:well I've fucked up again, been sorf of seeing this guy called Michael and he came round tonight, normal evening, until he started to say that I seemed a little distant and thought we we going a little too slowly for his liking (we've been on one date and to the pub once) and he got me to open up about my feelings which usually ends badly and he got me to admit that in the past week or so that I have come to terms with the fact that I am far from over Harland (despite the inital anger) and it all went downhill from there the last thing he said to me was that he "hopes he doesn't bump into me in town and the next time I go into a pit of despair not to drag anyone on with me" but the bit that hurts the most is I was entirley honest about the events of the past year on our first date and he seemed OK with it but at the first sign of me going through a rough patch he bolts and tells me he never wants to see me again whilst going on to me that I should respect the fact that he has feelings too? I hate to be so general but men can be such bastards at times
Lil wrote:kat wrote:well I've fucked up again, been sorf of seeing this guy called Michael and he came round tonight, normal evening, until he started to say that I seemed a little distant and thought we we going a little too slowly for his liking (we've been on one date and to the pub once) and he got me to open up about my feelings which usually ends badly and he got me to admit that in the past week or so that I have come to terms with the fact that I am far from over Harland (despite the inital anger) and it all went downhill from there the last thing he said to me was that he "hopes he doesn't bump into me in town and the next time I go into a pit of despair not to drag anyone on with me" but the bit that hurts the most is I was entirley honest about the events of the past year on our first date and he seemed OK with it but at the first sign of me going through a rough patch he bolts and tells me he never wants to see me again whilst going on to me that I should respect the fact that he has feelings too? I hate to be so general but men can be such bastards at times
Yikes. Sorry that happened, Kat. Some men are real jerks.
Dorset Girl wrote:Children! You can't live with them. You can't shove them back into the womb.
CatNamedRudy wrote:Dorset Girl wrote:Children! You can't live with them. You can't shove them back into the womb.
Yikes! That would hurt more than coming out I think!
Dorset Girl wrote:Hmm, I managed to get to that Counselling session. Except that it wasn't counselling because they're fully booked up for three months, apparently. It was CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy) which, for anyone who's not familiar with it, is about deconstructing negative thoughts and proving to ourselves why they're irrational (or something like that!).
She gave me this little 'flow diagram' thing to work through, but it didn't work at all, because every time I described a negative thought, she said that it was perfectly rational, and therefore I didn't need to change my behaviour towards it. So I left feeling more confused than I was when I went in!
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