Rodge wrote:DHP wrote:Dorset Girl wrote:DHP wrote:I tend to just go round my mates' or phone them if I need to have a deep and meaningful. Tend to steer clear of posting personal stuff on the internet (apart from emails to friends) for reasons of security and privacy. Been burned in the past from sharing personal stuff with people who I ultimately didn't know as well as I needed to, so avoid it altogether in the past except with my closest friends who've proven to be reliable.
Personally, I find that it can be easier to talk about things with people I 'know' online than it can face to face. However, if it's anything sensitive, I tend to do it via PM.
With regard to what we're talking about here, I personally don't feel that there is any disadvantage to OT being 'members only' so why not? I wouldn't rely on it staying that way and typing any old thing in the forums, but I've seen it work on other forums, so hopefully it will here.
I respect that other people have different views on this, this is just my humble opinion.
I'm not particularly against it as it doesn't affect me, I'm just not in favour of it either as I don't see the advantages. However, for the sake of those who would be affected positively by it, I say go for it if you're sure.
Well thank you very much - so kind!
Sorry, just read that back and it doesn't come across that great...