insaneasperger wrote:Well last night was great, had the most amazing time and tried out a 69 for the first time. Really hoping it happens again!
insaneasperger wrote:Tonight we acted out one of my favourite songs, blanket on the ground, I am still freezing but was great.
Hopefully tomorrow it'll be summer of 69 again! That was so much fun!
uh ih uh ah ah, ting tang wallawallabingbang
Dorset Girl wrote:Noo, now that song's going to be in my head all day!
Patrick wrote:Do Americans really dial *69 to call back the last caller or is that a movie thing?
Patrick wrote:Do Americans really dial *69 to call back the last caller or is that a movie thing?
Frasiertime wrote:Patrick wrote:Do Americans really dial *69 to call back the last caller or is that a movie thing?
Yes they do.
Rodge wrote:Cricky, this sex thread has become very tame; where is Ouro, when we need her.
ouroboros wrote:Actual rape is nothing to do with sex and everything to do with power. The re-enactment of it in pornography then is also to do with power. I can’t speak for people who have fantasied about doing the raping, as I don’t identify. However I can identify with people who have fantasied about being in the powerless role. It is usually due to a lack of self-worth or a ‘repetition compulsion’ to safely re-experience previous trauma but have there be a different outcome (i.e. they fight them off this time or they enjoy it). Another common thing is to not be in the fantasy at all but enjoy the thought of/watching it happen to someone else. This is usually a way to keep oneself safe whilst attempting to process the trauma of adult or indeed childhood sexual abuse. So IMHO, rape shouldn’t be sexually stimulating. If it is there are unresolved problems that need to be addressed. To call someone sick and perverted is not helpful. It is an aggressive fear based response that possibly ‘doth protest too much’. I think the key is society needs to look at its culture, the way women and men are portrayed in the media that make sexuality all about power and image and very little to do with sensuality. I also think we need to come to terms as a society as well with the fact we have a lot of traumatised children in denial walking around trying to make sense of their internal world/rage towards the opposite/same/heterosexual/homosexual folk. A slew of repressed memories that get projected into anger and a weird contorted view of gender/sexuality. Long story short I don’t think you’re sick. I just wouldn’t call it healthy either.
Bee Gees Fan wrote:I have a question of a somewhat personal nature and to go into it, I'll go into a bit of background:
A couple of months ago, the discussion of pornography came up on a forum which I post on occasionally. I posted that when I look at pornography (which is not too often anyway) I sometimes like to look at the forced or rape category because I find some of those videos stimulating.
The other day I discovered that a couple of websites/forums that dislike our forum have quoted part of my post about my taste in pornography and have used it to attack my character somewhat. One website described me as having "perverted fantasies", the other quoted me as an example of the "sick and mentally unbalanced" people on that website.
My question: is it so wrong or controversial to enjoy watching forced/rape pornography? I don't think it is and I'm not ashamed of enjoying it. The way I look at it is: this is not real rape, it's acting carried out by two consenting adults. No one is being harmed. And I can't help what stimulates me.
I don't think enjoying that kind of pornography makes me a bad person or sick or mentally unbalanced. Plenty of people have somewhat kinky tastes. I have more "normal" sexual preferences as well. Is watching the forced category of pornography such a big deal? It never crossed my mind that someone would quote from my post to criticise me.
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